I’m the best to my family
Mohamed (SAW) said “ the best among you are the best to your family and I’m the best to my family”
Nowadays, People think that the best of them are the best to their communities. They are living in a complete denial believing that the best of them are the ones who make the best speechs, the ones who make the best lectures or the ones who are the best in their work! They think that being good on the outside with a lot of people is difficult and they need to survive till they make it. But they are wrong!
As far I’m concerned, I do admit that it’s easy to be good outside. It’s really easy to build relationships with people. It’s really easy to be nice to whom you’re with at work or at school. And the reason is easy too; because if you’re not, as a modern method, they will subtweet you on Twitter, they will tag you on Facebook and who knows may be they will make you as an Instagram story! and , as an old one, they will think that you are terrible. They will badmouth you and make that imaginary tale of who you are. May be they will talk bad about you in the morning so you could not be able to drink your coffe peacefully! But if you do something bad to your mom or dad, they will not disown you! I hope…
If you are disrespecting your sister, insulting and hurting her she is still going to be your sister. If you are beating your brother for misbehaving he is still going to be your brother. But if you do something bad on the outside! Believe me none of your friends or coworkers is going to be the same. You will potentially ruin a relationship. And that’s why it’s easy for us to be good on the outside but it’s hard to be good at home.
More clearly, this is why we do celebrate “ the family bond” and we do believe in it’s strength because we will be ourselves without the fear of rejection, judgment or hypocrisy. Our true character comes out at home. When we had a long day at work or at a school, we’ve faced a lot of difficulties, struggles and conflicts. We had a hard day or may be someone broke our hearts. At this moment, no one can see it of you .. No one can see the flaws and the weaknesses. None of your friends will notice how bad you’re feeling. None of your coworkers will notice how tired you are! But when we go home and unleash the things that have been building among the entire day, we feel safe and secure. We don’t care if we misbehaved or said something bad because none of our family member will judge us.
The question here is “ to whom we will unleah our burden? “ the answer is so obvious; ‘ to the people whom we should care about most... the people who deserve the most respect from us.. the people who need our real feelings and emotions… the people whom we should never hurt… .
Sometimes, we forget how important is our family and we try to get rid of it’s bond because we’re impressed with the outside. We screwed up! But this doesn’t prevent us from trying to fix the damage we’ve made. No matter what! By the end of the day, we will go home to find our mom waiting with tears.
